Travel Warning: U.S. Issues Alert on Dating App-Related Kidnappings in Mexico

If you’re planning a trip to Mexico and considering using dating apps while abroad, there’s an important safety alert you need to know about.

The U.S. Embassy & Consulate in Mexico has issued a warning to American travelers after a disturbing rise in kidnappings linked to online dating apps. The incidents have primarily occurred in the popular tourist destinations of Puerto Vallarta and Nuevo Nayarit.

What’s Happening?

According to U.S. officials, several victims met their kidnappers through dating platforms. The setup is chilling: after matching online, victims were lured into meeting in person—only to be kidnapped and held for ransom. In several cases, families back in the U.S. were extorted for large sums of money to secure their loved ones’ release.

This growing trend has raised red flags with the U.S. State Department, which currently advises:

• Jalisco (home to Puerto Vallarta): Level 3 – Reconsider Travel due to high crime and kidnapping rates.

• Nayarit (which includes Nuevo Nayarit): Level 2 – Exercise Increased Caution due to crime.

Why This Matters

While dating apps can be a fun way to meet people when traveling, these incidents are a serious reminder of the potential dangers—especially in regions already flagged for safety concerns. This isn’t just about romance gone wrong; it’s about organized criminal activity preying on unsuspecting travelers.

How to Stay Safe

If you’re traveling to Mexico—or anywhere abroad—and plan to use dating apps, here are some crucial safety tips from the U.S. Consulate:

• Stay in Public Spaces: Always meet in well-populated, public places. Avoid private residences, hotel rooms, or secluded areas.

• Keep Others Informed: Share your plans with someone you trust—where you're going, who you're meeting, and what app you used.

• Listen to Your Gut: If anything feels off, don’t hesitate to leave the situation immediately.

• Know Who to Call: In an emergency, dial 911 for local police assistance. If you're a U.S. citizen and need consular help, contact the nearest U.S. Embassy or Consulate.

Final Thoughts

Traveling should be a rewarding experience, but it’s essential to stay informed and vigilant—especially when navigating online connections abroad. This warning isn’t meant to scare you, but to empower you to travel smarter and safer.

Stay alert. Stay safe. And enjoy your journey responsibly.